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Relationship Coaching for Parents & Young Adults

Mother + Young Adult Daughter Coaching

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Ready to learn how to understand & talk about hard feelings?

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This mini-training will provide you with tools for how to identify, understand, and articulate big feelings when they arise. After this training, you’ll feel more confident having the conversations you’re not having.

In this free video training, you’ll learn…

  • The importance of our emotions and the role that they play

  • Where our emotions come from and how to make sense of them

  • Why it sometimes feels like there’s a mismatch between a situation and our emotional reaction to it, and what to do about it

  • How to talk about your feelings and needs in ways that support all  your relationships

It’s devastating to feel disconnected from our kids.

It’s painful to watch them struggle and to not be able to fix it. Whenever we try, we seem to only make it worse.

You’re not alone. Parenting is hard. Being a young adult is hard. There’s a lot that is shifting and changing, and it’s hard to keep up. As a parent myself, I have so much compassion for the struggle. And as a professional who has worked with countless families over the past decade, I can assure you that change is possible. Healing is possible. There is hope for your family.

All I ask is that you stay open, curious, and willing. If you can do that, I’ve got a roadmap that can help. I use a simple yet powerful framework that I have seen transform relationships and families over and over again. I believe it can work for you too. 

If you trust the process, I can help you experience the power of repair and the beauty of reconnection within your family.

Are you ready to get started? 

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Welcome!

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I’m Jordan, LCSW, LCAS

I’m first and foremost a parent, a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community, and a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Clinical Addiction Specialist.

I help well-intended, frustrated parents and their young adult children who feel disconnected and confused about how to move forward in their relationship. Through a structured, creative approach I provide families with new skills to repair their relationship, grow their connection, and feel confident navigating future challenges.

I believe wholeheartedly that when people have the skills to navigate challenges within their relationships and feel confident in their connections, the impact of their efforts in attunement, presence, and repair are powerful not just for future generations within the family, but for humanity as a whole.

Reflections from my clients

  • "The work that Jordan did with my family was truly transformative and still touches us over a year later.

    She creates a deep sense of safety to express hard things and meets them with respect and kindness. There is such authenticity and heartfulness in her work-you truly feel her wisdom and compassion. At the same time, she challenges you and helps you change long standing relationship dynamics in ways that may not have felt possible. Our lives have been changed and we are so thankful to have worked with her.”

    Paula

  • "At a raw and emotional time in our family, when communication felt impossible, Jordan made it possible and showed us a path forward.

    She always knew the words that needed to be said and patiently worked with us on how to say them. With the help of her calming presence and experience, we were able to share our feelings and find our way back to each other, without the interference of all the painful baggage of the past."

    Daniel

  • "My experience working with Jordan was life changing.

    Jordan’s empathy and desire to help heal my family was evident from our first conversation. My time with her was crucial to determining a course of action for not only my child’s future but also my own. Her ability to listen and offer guidance kept me grounded and focused. Jordan is a rarity in today’s world, a person who truly wants to help others and has the strength and determination to accomplish it. I highly recommend her services.”

    Jeff

  • "The work Jordan did with my kid and our family during a time of great crisis made a fundamental difference in all our lives.

    Jordan was able to give my kid the tools they needed to understand, process, and move beyond their past trauma, as well as essential family counseling that helped us understand our unique family dynamic and how we can all be better communicators among ourselves and allies for our children. We went from fearing every day that my kid would hurt themself to watching them bloom and grow, and our family grew together through the process. I cannot thank Jordan enough for their essential role in this transformation.

    Heather

  • "Jordan provides a safe and nurturing environment for the whole family to grow as individuals and simultaneously repair the family unit.

    We worked with Jordan during a very difficult time in our lives. She helped us not only to understand ourselves, but to help begin the process of healing. With her guidance, strength, and patience, we became stronger as a couple and more supportive parents. Jordan provides a safe and nurturing environment for the whole family to grow as individuals and simultaneously repair the family unit. She’s an amazing therapist and we would without a doubt recommend her to families that are struggling.

    Alisha

  • "Jordan's unique skill set and approach provided the missing links we needed to finally reconnect with our child from a place of trust.

    After years of family, group and individual therapy, our family felt more fractured than ever.   Our efforts to provide mental health support, gender affirmation and, eventually, addiction counseling were suddenly rejected by our child. The years of conflict and pain between us had taken a toll, pulled us apart and we couldn't find our way back to our child. Something was missing in our therapy attempts.  Jordan's unique skill set and approach provided the missing links we needed to finally reconnect with our child from a place of trust. With trust, came acceptance, accountability and acknowledgement and healing. Once our family healed became a positive force of support for our child. In the year since we worked with Jordan, we witnessed our child's incredible growth. The communication skills we learned from Jordan will continue to protect the trust we fought so hard to regain, and ensure that we never lose each other again. 

    Lisa

Learn the Foundations of Confident Connection

This is my essentials course for all my coaching clients!

How to Have Confident Connection Online Course

This course takes years of therapy training and research and distills the highlights down into one jam-packed, robustly resourced, self-paced course. The information in this course should not be gatekept. You should know about it, and you shouldn’t have to rack up years of therapy bills in the process.

In this course you’ll learn…

  • an expanded view of an ecological model of attachment

  • all about interpersonal neurobiology and how to break cycles of trauma

  • get curious about internal family systems and how to heal from the inside out

  • opportunities to practice new coping skills

All of those teachings along with guided meditations, journal prompts, and a robust resource toolkit.

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